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Win tickets to Tristan Taormino's Feminist Porn Show!
Would you like to win a pair of tickets to Tristan Taormino's upcoming Feminist Porn Show on Tuesday, June 5th? Of course you would! Enter to win by leaving a comment for us on Facebook telling us why you would love to go. We'll choose and notify a winner by this Friday night, so act fast!

Find us at Pride 2012!

Our booth at Pride in 2011The annual Pride festival is coming up on June 15th through 17th, and we will be involved all weekend! At our festive booth in Tom McCall Waterfront Park, we'll be representing pStyle, so we'll have tons of pStyles in every color for all your stand-to-pee needs — plus other queertastic items such as Rainbow Wristbands, Queer Magnetic Poetry, Pride Jock Straps, and more!

Of course, you'll find us marching in Sunday's parade along with the Q Center, whom we're sponsoring again this year! We're also a sponsor of the Q Center's Queer Heroes NW Art Show, a multi-media celebration of LGBTQ pioneers and leaders. The project can be viewed on the walls of the Aaron Hall Gallery at the Q Center throughout June, as well as in the Q Center's booth at Pride.

GaylabrationThat's not all! She Bop goodness can be found at several other Pride events during the weekend. You won't want to miss Gaylabration on Friday, June 15th — it's an epic dance party fundraiser at Leftbank Annex that benefits Basic Rights Oregon and Pride NW. We're a sponsor, and we also donated a whole pile of gift certificates!

Pride NW Inferno Dance PartyWe'll also have a table at the Pride NW Inferno Dance Party on Saturday, June 16th at Refuge (116 SE Yamhill), 8 p.m. to 4 a.m. The party will feature burlesque, belly dancers, aerialists, several DJs, and of course, tons of dancing! Show your pride by costuming as your gayest fantasy, and be sure to come by our table! Advance tickets are $11 (+ service charge) and can be purchased online, or tickets are $15 at the door.

Also, don't miss Pride NW & In Other Words Present Beautiful Families on Sunday, June 10th. Bring your kids to In Other Words for face painting, arts and crafts, story time, magic, and clowning around!

10% Tuesdays in June for the Q Center!

Q CenterOn each Tuesday in June, 10% of our sales will go to the Q Center, the wonderful LGBTQ community center just around the corner from us in North Portland. The Q Center is a non-profit organization that celebrates LGBTQ diversity through art, culture, and collaborative community programming.

Come visit us on any Tuesday in June, and 10% of your purchase will go to the Q Center!

What's new in the shop

Bound by LustBDSM-themed erotica is everywhere these days, so we had to have Bound by Lust: Romantic Stories of Submission and Sensuality. And if you've already torn your way through the entrancing Fifty Shades of Grey, satiate yourself with the second installment in the series, Fifty Shades Darker.

We also picked up this beautiful and much-needed book: Transitions of the Heart: Stories of Love, Struggle, and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children.

Blue Venus VibeThe silky smooth, waterproof Blue Venus Vibe is a popular and inexpensive hummer vibe that specializes in clitoral buzz. One side is pointed and one side is scooped, for stimulation however you like it.

Celebrate Pride by flicking the spinner in the SEX! game for same-sex couples, or adorn your package with a rainbow-striped Pride Jock Strap.

Hella Brown: Real Sex in the CityWe're really excited to now carry Hella Brown: Real Sex in the City, a hot queer porn film directed by Nenna. Watch some fierce folks get it on by a pool, near open windows looking out over the city, and in the kitchen. You'll probably need a cold shower after watching this one!

Industry Spotlight: Tristan Taormino
Tristan TaorminoIn honor of Tristan Taormino's visit to Portland at the beginning of June, we thought we'd find out just how she became such a world-renowned sex educator, author, and feminist pornographer.

Turns out, Taormino thought she wanted to be a lawyer. But she faced numerous law school application rejections, and her advisor pulled her aside to tell her, "I don't think you want to go to law school. I think you want to write about sex. And I think you're really good at it."

Find out how Taormino took that advice and ran with it, churning out books, DVDs, lectures and advice about sex to the masses, in our blog post!
'Sup on the blog?
This month on our blog, we posted about Autostraddle's Queer Girl City Guide to Portland, an in-depth guide that lists all kinds of queer-friendly restaurants, bars, coffee shops, strip clubs, hair salons, and tattoo shops in PDX, as well as events — such as queer dance nights, Pride, and a plethora of other rad LGBTQ functions. To our delight, North Portland is listed as a "Gayborhood," and we're mentioned as Portland's local, female-owned sex toy shop. Check it out!

Ontario birth certificate Both Ontario and Argentina have recently taken some big leaps forward for trans rights, allowing for gender self-determination on birth certificates without proof of medical, judicial, or psychiatric procedures first. Read about the decisions and laws that are making this happen.

We received some wonderful — and hilarious — stories about your travels with sex toys on our recent guide to traveling with sex toys! It was really hard to choose just one favorite, but we decided the winner of the Appetite travel bag was Megan, with her amusing story about a large dildo that garnered the nickname "Hillshire." Read the rest of our favorite travel stories here!

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Classes + workshops

Making Open Relationships Work with Tristan Taormino

Sunday, June 3rd — 7:30 p.m. — $25

Tristan TaorminoDo open relationships really work? How do people create nontraditional partnerships that are loving and lasting? Tristan Taormino, relationship expert and author of Opening Up, shares some of the key principles that can help your open relationship(s) succeed.

Tristan will discuss common issues and problems — from "new relationship energy" and time management to jealousy and agreement violations — and ways to address and resolve them. She'll offer tips on communication, negotiation, and boundary setting, as well as how to cope with change. Learn how to get to the root of jealous feelings and transform them by embracing the concept of compersion. Whether you’re a newcomer or veteran to the world beyond monogamy, come discover strategies to help you nurture and grow your open relationship(s).

Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, columnist, editor, and sex educator. She is the author of seven books and runs her own adult film production company, Smart Ass Productions. She directs three porn series for Vivid Entertainment: a reality series called Chemistry; Vivid-Ed, a sex education series; and Rough Sex, a vignette series based around women's real fantasies. She was a syndicated columnist for The Village Voice for nine and a half years and writes an advice column for Taboo Magazine. Tristan has been featured in over 200 publications and has appeared on CNN, HBO's Real Sex, Loveline, MTV, Oxygen, The Discovery Channel, and on over four dozen radio shows. She teaches sex and relationship workshops around the world.

This workshop will be held at the Q Center, which is 3 blocks up the street from She Bop at the corner of Mississippi and Mason (4115 N. Mississippi).

Limited space available — sign up online!

She Bop Presents The Feminist Porn Show with Tristan Taormino

Tuesday, June 5th — Mississippi Studios — 21+ — doors 7 p.m., pre-show 7:30 p.m., show 8 p.m. — $25

Tristan TaorminoJoin us for a special evening showcasing feminist porn, a genre of adult films and a growing movement!

Tristan Taormino will share a brief history and definition of feminist porn, then screen a special compilation curated by her, which includes clips from the work of feminist porn pioneers and newcomers including Candida Royalle, Annie Sprinkle, Nina Hartley, Petra Joy, Erika Lust, Shine Louise Houston, Madison Young, Courtney Trouble, and more. The screening will be followed by a facilitated discussion, where we'll explore some of the current issues surrounding feminist porn.

The pre-show will include a sexy performance from Felice Shays. Afterward, Tristan will stick around to sign books and videos, and the party can continue at the adjoining Bar Bar!

Tristan Taormino is a writer, sex educator, speaker, and feminist pornographer. She is the author of seven books and editor 25 anthologies including her latest, The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. She is co-editor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure, the first collection that includes writings by scholars, academics, producers and performers about feminist porn, forthcoming in 2013 from The Feminist Press. She runs the adult film production company Smart Ass Productions and is an exclusive director for Vivid Entertainment. She has directed and produced twenty-four sex education and porn films including the groundbreaking series based on real female kink fantasies, Rough Sex, and the Expert Guide sex education series, which she created for Vivid-Ed. She was the first female director to win an AVN Award for Best Gonzo Movie for the debut film in her reality series Chemistry, and she received the Trailblazer Award at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2010.

This event is general admission, so get there early for a good seat. Tickets are available in person at She Bop and Mississippi Studios, where there will be a $1 box office fee. If you buy tickets online, there is a $4.40 service charge.

21+ only.

Purchase tickets online here!

Boudoir Burlesque

Wednesday, July 11th — 7:30 p.m. — $15

Madison MooneAcclaimed Big Time! Burlesque producer Madison Moone is back to bring you Boudoir Burlesque, a burlesque movement class designed to get you in touch with your feminine wiles!

This tantalizing class begins with a brief overview of some burlesque basics such as bumps, grinds, and struts before moving into a flirty, choreographed routine. Miss Moone combines traditional burlesque moves and classic striptease with modern dance techniques. Bob Fosse meets Dita Von Teese in a sultry class that is sure to give your libido a work out!

While nudity is not required, sexy costuming is! We are learning "the art of the tease," so layering is essential. We will aim to remove 2-3 pieces during the routine. Short skirts, sexy slip dresses, button-up shirts, zip-up hoodies, and opera length gloves are simple pieces to begin working with. Also bring a sexy outfit of your choice from home including heels, panties and a bra, which we will be revealing in class. The sky is the limit, so let your female spirit run wild! Not sure what to wear? Bring some wardrobe from home and Miss Moone will act as your burlesque stylist.

Beginners and adventurous spirits are highly encouraged to attend! All levels of fitness welcome, no dance experience or nudity required. Please avoid alcohol consumption before attending and arrive by 7:20 p.m. — class will begin promptly at 7:30 p.m., no late entrance after 7:45 p.m. No photographs are permitted. Don't forget to bring water!

Limited space available — sign up online!

Great Sex, Erections or Not!

Wednesday, July 18th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

Laura RadStaying soft or going soft when you’d rather be hard is something that happens to all penises at some point. But great sex does not depend on a hard erection! Whether you are soft some of the time or all of the time you can still have hot, intense and satisfying sex alone or with a partner.

Taught by Laura Rad of the Sex is Fun and Strong, Sexy & Stylish podcasts, this class will cover basic reasons why you might have trouble getting or staying hard as well as ways to encourage more erections and keep them longer. Discover hot options for non-penetrative sex, penetrative sex with toys, and prostate play.

This class also covers info for partners including how to give pleasure while he is soft and how to communicate your needs in a supportive and positive ways. Trouble getting and maintaining an erection can cause a bump in your sexual self concept, but you can overcome it. Come discover the wide world of sexual possibilities that are open to you, hard or soft!

Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over eight years. She enjoys furthering our cultural conversation about sex as one of the hosts of the popular Sex is Fun podcast and on her newest podcast, Strong, Sexy & Stylish. Her writing has been featured in the Sex is Fun online magazine, Smitten Kitten's Hot Dish, and Playboy UK online. Laura loves to design sex education classes for adults that are welcoming of people of all genders, orientations and relationship styles. She has presented at the University of Minnesota, the SXSW Festival, and Pride in Stockholm, Sweden as well as many other events. Most recently, Laura earned her MA in Marriage and Family Therapy and created Edgewise, an affirming and welcoming place for relationship and sex-positive therapy in Minneapolis, Minnesota. When she is not hard at work you can find her amusing her small child and frightening her small dog with her terrible dancing.

Limited space available — sign up online!

Full-Bodied Fellatio

Thursday, July 26th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

M. Makael NewbyWhat do you do when your partner lacks blowjob skills? Where do you go for training when you wish to improve your own? Here!

M. Makael Newby is a relationship coach and dance instructor with a particular skill for breaking physical action into components and teaching them with enthusiasm... and blowjobs are one of her favorite things. This class will educate both the givers and receivers. Come learn about creating anticipation, communication, preparing for success, hand skills, tongue tricks, prostate massage, deep throating, sloppy BJs, choking and forced gagging for both bio and strap-on penises. Live demo (on dildo) included.

Many of these techniques are included in My Erotic Adventure, her choose-your-own styled erotic novel, now available at She Bop. Get empowered to give and receive extraordinary head!

Limited space available — sign up online!

The Joys of Toys!

Wednesday, August 1st — 7:30 p.m. — $15

Join She Bop's very own AJ (aka Amory Jane) for an evening of education and fun. Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered "what the heck is that?" Never fear, AJ will answer those burning (in a good way) questions and then some!

In this class you will learn how sex toys originated and have advanced throughout history. AJ will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more. Of course, don't forget one of the most important things of all... yes, that would be lube! AJ will go over the different types of lube, as well as the ingredients to be aware of when selecting the best product for you. She will also address how to clean and store your toys so that you can enjoy them for as long as possible.

This workshop is open to all genders and sexual appetites!

Limited space available — sign up online!

Bound By Lust: Reading and Writing Erotica

Thursday, August 9th — 7:30 p.m. — FREE

Shanna GermainCome and hear award-winning writer Shanna Germain read from Bound by Lust, a collection of BDSM-focused erotic romance. After, she'll talk about the saucy, sexy (and sometimes just plain silly) life of a full-time erotica writer and will answer questions about writing erotica, getting published, writing sex toys off on your taxes, and anything else you want to ask. Attendees can enter to win a copy of Bound by Lust, which they can get signed!

Shanna Germain is a writer, editor, instructor, girl geek, tree kisser, and book-nerd. With a whole lot of writing years under her belt (or her collar, depending on the day), Shanna's poems, essays, short stories, novellas, articles and more have found homes in hundreds of magazines, newspapers, books and websites.

An Associate Fellow at the Attic Institute in Portland, Oregon, she has taught classes in writing, publishing, media and photography at a wide variety of places. She's even garnered an award here and there, including a Pushcart nomination, the Rauxa Prize for Erotic Poetry, and the C. Hamilton Bailey Poetry Fellowship. Her erotic works have appeared in places like Women in Lust, Hide and Seek, Playing with Fire, Fairy Tale Lust, Girl Crush, and many more.

She Bop sponsored events around town

Orchestre L'Pow presents Big Time! Burlesque Exotic Summer Adventure!

Saturday, June 16th — The Alberta Rose Theatre — doors 7 p.m., show 8 p.m. — $15-25

Set sail with Orchestre L'Pow! and your host Vincent Drambuie on a burlesque safari performed to live music — it's Big Time! Burlesque's Exotic Summer Adventure!.

From rollicking on the beaches of Southern California and Coney Island to the heart of Africa and beyond — all voyages are accompanied by the rockin', post-punk big-band sounds of Orchestre L'Pow!. Big Time! Burlesque's Exotic Summer Adventure will have you transported from one fabulous locale to the next in style and with class.

Buy tickets here!

Mystery Box Show

Thursday, June 21st — Brody Theater — 7:30 p.m. — $10 — 21+

Mystery Box ShowThe Mystery Box Show is a live storytelling series with one simple focus: real people confessing their true stories of sex and sexuality, creating a unique and intimate bond between storyteller and audience.

Over the course of the evening you're likely to hear stories of awkward first times, sexy one-night stands, kinky explorations, and dark fantasies come true. The stories are often funny, surprising, and even touching and heartfelt. They may remind you of a time when you felt vulnerable, or on the edge of something new, or they may inspire you to chase after recently-awakened desires.

Come on down and check out the performance. You never know what spicy tales will be revealed!

Buy tickets here!

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