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|Dear <<First Name>>,
Greetings from the beach!
I've spent the week watching the sun rise, going for long walks and watching my daughter play in the sand and the water with her cousins. I witnessed her gasp when she saw her first firefly. And I heard her squeal with delight when she tasted her blue moon ice cream cone. We've gone to the movies, picked blueberries, eaten feasts and danced on the beach at sunset.
I've moved slowly and felt so much joy and witnessed so much magic. I've noticed how much pleasure I experience when there is room for it.
We create space for the things that matter. So what about your desire?
Making Room for Desire
One of the biggest sources of pain I hear about in my office is lack of desire. I talk with many woman (and their partners) who share they just don't feel any desire. They share that they rarely think about sex. They tell me they feel broken.
Sometimes we can discover a few places they feel more desire (on vacation, at the beginning of a relationship, when they ovulate, or during moments of excitement). When we explore their lives we find that they don't really have room for desire. Their days are so full and busy that at the end of the day they are exhausted. Or they are trying to switch from work to parenting and when it's time for bed they have a really small window to switch to sex. There isn't enough time.
Think about your own life. Is there room for anything else?
Think about your own experience with desire, arousal, sex or pleasure. Is there room for your desire?
Do you take the time to slow down and connect with your desire, your body or your pleasure?
We've been conditioned to believe that desire is just supposed to strike us. For busy people, that isn't often the case. Try creating the space for your desire and see what happens.
Give yourself enough time if you want to have a sexy date with your partner. Prioritize your sexuality. Take time to connect with your own body and your own sexuality. Get sex on your radar.
Do not wait for desire to come to you, make the time and space in your life and invite desire out to play!
I had such a wonderful time during my Sensuous Woman Soiree. I've kept the private facebook group from the event open so that we can continue to talk about women's sexuality, sensuality and pleasure. You can join us here.
I also offered a special for the 80 women in the Soiree and wanted to extend the same offer to you! Read more about my PDF and free coaching session below.
You Don’t Have to be a Sexy Tiger: Discover YOUR Sexual Self!”
I created this class as a way to connect to your sexual truth. No more putting on characters or trying to be someone else. This is a 10 week e-course to discover who YOU are.
Each week we explore a different topic -
You get -
- What is a Sexual Being? What does it mean to be sexual?
- Know Your Body – Anatomy and Body Image
- Sensuality – Romance – Love
- Discover What you like – Pleasure – Orgasm
- Desire – Passion – Creativity
- Vulnerability – Intimacy – Asking for what you want
- What does sexy look like? – Power – Flirting – Seduction
- How does sexuality fit in with the rest of your life? – Getting Sex on your Radar
You get to do it at your own pace in the comfort of your pajamas (or lingerie). And at the end of the class you will be connected to your sexuality, your pleasure, your truth, yourself!
- 10 Weeks of Questions, Activities and Exercises
- 10 Weeks of Information and Lessons
- 11 Videos
- 10 Audio Call Recordings
As a special bonus for all of you Sensuous Women, I'm offering this 10 week e-course PLUS a free 30-minute coaching session for $99.
You can learn more about it or purchase it here.
It's so painful to feel disconnected, ashamed or broken. You Don't Have to Be a Sexy Tiger is my labor of love. Helping women connect to their sexuality and pleasure is the work I'm most excited about. If you are tired of to trying to be someone you aren't or tired of feeling "less than" or "not enough", it's for you!
Get instant access to the class and the free coaching session here.
Here's to making space for the things that matter!
Are you looking for more ways you can improve your relationship? You can find more ideas on my blog or watch my videos and KOIN Studio 6 segments. Learn about my counseling practice and decide if counseling is right for you here.